All I need is a miracle.. All I need is you..!

When nothing seems, to go quiet right,
And I no longer, can see the light,
I look upon, your cheerful face,
And I’m taken away, to a far better place.

I lose myself in your gleaming black eyes,
I can’t pull away even if I were to try...
Your perfect in every way,
The very thought of U, makes my day.

You came to me, from the heavens above.
You flew in on wings, my darling my love.
I cherish every word you’ve said.
You move me, like the music I play in my head.

In this world of false truth,
I know only one thing is true,
I’d give up on anything and everything,
Just to be with you...!!

The Mule

A couple was celebrating their golden wedding anniversary. The whole town was talking about how compatible and happy they have been. On this special occasion, one asked what the secret of their long and happy married life was....

“Well”, explained the husband, “it all goes back to our honeymoon. We visited the Grand Canyon, and took a trip down to the bottom of the canyon by pack mule. We hadn’t’ gone too far when my wife’s mule stumbled. My wife quietly said “That’s once’. We proceeded a little further, when the mule stumbled again. Once more my wife quietly spoke: “That’s twice’. We hadn’t gone a half-mile when the mule stumbled a third time. My wife promptly removed a revolver from her purse, hopped down off the beast, and shot the mule dead. I started to protest over her treatment of the mule when she looked at me and quietly said “That’s once’.

Spot the Player..!

A typical player is someone who put on shows of attractiveness to catch the eye of potential mates and predators lie in wait to prey on the weak. Any woman who’s done her time on the singles circuit will have come across some of these conniving types. The most common being the man who seems sensitive and committed, until he conquers his target. From then on, he disappears like a shadow into the night. If you’re wondering, he is the type who can change himself from woman to woman. Then there’s the type who doesn’t let you know he’s hedging his bets – or beds – by simultaneously dating several women. There is also the type who would let the women hunt and do the hard work while he saunters over whenever he needs satisfaction.

In recent times, however, there has emerged a dangerous hybrid type. This guy will break your heart into a million little pieces – and you’ll end up apologizing for making a mess. “No way,” you cry, “I can spot a bastard from a mile away.” Maybe, but that often holds true only when he’s approaching you. This man, however, lays a trap many unsuspecting women fall into. In fact, he plays his magic so complete, many women can’t figure out how he did it even after the hurt subsides..!

The Look

One of this man’s defining traits is his appearance. He doesn’t immediately turn heads when he enters a room. Rather, while he might appear ordinary on first glance, it’s the second one that creates your curiosity. He doesn’t talk a lot but people listen when he does. Extroverted in a muted way, you get the feeling he’s continually about to leave for somewhere more interesting. Yet his friendliness makes you want to ask him if u can tag along because somehow you know he’s not going to be issuing invitations. From his Levis jeans to the distressed Marlboro’s, he’s just uninterested in you enough for you to want to know more about him. Although this sounds contradicting, it is in fact, the essence of this man’s dating modus operandi.

The Philosophy

This character invariably develops from one of two streams. The first can be described in two words: Raging Ego. He believes he’s a gift to womankind. Not only would any woman be lucky to have him but any woman would like to be had by him. As a result, he doesn’t have to play the games of attraction the rest of the mere mortal males find themselves caught up in. The second area from which these men hail is the desperately dateless. These guys who have tried the conventional dating strategies – respect, flowers, flatters – but with results so pitiful a radical rethink has been required.

Either way, however, their underlying mantra is the same. These men have figured out that in the dating sphere, men are most often the chasers and women the being chased. The dynamics may even out later but earlier on, its pretty much the guy asking to be given a chance to dazzle her.

One would think you’d be able to cut off the time-wasting game-player at the pass but his cleverness lies in the ability to send signals that are better mixed than a perfect martini. This results in you figuring “well, he obviously likes me… but not enough.”

The logical follow-on to this is “why?” And bingo, he’s fascinated you by preying on any human’s most vulnerable point: Self-esteem. Having had his battered by countless “you’re sweet but I want to be friends” and “I like you but not in that way”, he’s intimately acquainted with how ego-crushing such sentiments can be. He knows anyone on the receiving end will find themselves wondering, “What is it about me that’s not good enough for him?” Combine this with a bit of flirtation, gazes held a little too long and the odd compliment and even the most sane woman to find herself determined to prove this guy that she deserves to be considered potential girlfriend material. Worse still, this man comes with finely-tuned radar that enables him to realize the precise moment you’re about to give-up on him. Its then that he’ll end a phone conversation with “By the way, your eyes looked really pretty last night.”

One Step Forward, Two Steps Back

Call me old-fashioned but when people are sincere about their feelings towards others whose company they enjoy, they want to be in touch with that person. So, if that person sends them an email or a voice message, they try to respond as soon as possible. The man we have been dissecting will not do that. In fact, he’s the master of the blocking. Should your name flash up on his phone, chances are he won’t answer. That would signal an availability he does not wish to convey. He will, however, scan the voicemail for any traces of irritation in your voice. If none is forthcoming, he’ll wait at least a day before calling back. Again, this is to make you feel you’re not as high on his priority list as you feel you deserve to be. Should you come across as a little irritated, he’ll get in touch sooner to keep stringing you along. However, you’re the one who will come away from the conversation wondering whether you overstepped the line – all because he couldn’t be bothered with basic manners. This man is determined to win you over by messing with your head.

Body Talk

Here’s the clincher for this dude. You’ll probably want to jump up his bones like he was Brad Pitt and George Clooney rolled into one. This is because he has cottoned onto one of the most powerful seduction tools known to men: Not making any moves. Since women are used to being pawed by anything with testicles and clichéd opening lines, you don’t really know how to handle it when a guy doesn’t seem interested in you physically. This, by the way, is a contradiction in terms. Of course he wants to sleep with you he’s just getting there differently. This guy will take you high to the brink of seduction then pull back leaving you dry at the last second so its upto you to complete the transaction. As you do so, he may even turn away and trot out the favorite female line, “I don’t want to mess up our friendship.” Knowing that you’ve probably never been on the receiving end of it before, he knows just what a disaster it can be.

Should things progress to the point of sex, he’ll show a similar reluctance on the grounds that he “respects you too much to just have something physical when you deserve more”. Definitely he wants you like Oprah wants chocolate cake. However, by making you doubt your own attractiveness, it’s more likely you want to prove it to him. Even if its on his terms.

What makes this situation even more confusing is that the sex will be top-notch – as most things are if anticipated long enough. This will naturally make you want him more, he’ll retreat and the cycle continues. This is what this type of player wanted all along..!!

a word for him..!

In life there are ups and downs.
Things to smile about,
Things to frown.
Things you wish you could do,
Things you hope will happen to you.

To have something to live for,
To crave for something more and more.
To have comfort and pleasure,
To have something you want to treasure.

To have something to wonder,
To have something to bother.
To have something of pure fun,
To have it for yourself,
Not just anyone.

Selfish it may seem,
But the thing i have is what i am proud of,
Something that gleams.

Something that cannot be bought with fortune.
Something that is more beautiful than the sky
And the moon.

Something that i refer to as someone,
Someone that i would call my own.
A perfect package he definitely is,
Filled with love and pure bliss.!